Attachment with Detachment

Recently, I also came across a similar article by Ms. Sudha Murthy on attachment and detachment, and wanted to write my views on the same as a blog. It was very beautifully explained by her, that attachment with detachment is not by choice but at a point of time it becomes a necessity for survival, esp for women. After 50 or 55 when your children are busy in their lives, husband in his, at that point of time you need to detach yourself from the attachments and have something of your own. It increases love and respect in the eyes of family and your loved ones. 
A woman is so much emotionally attached to her children that it  becomes difficult for her to accept the change of time that occurs, when their priorities divert. At this point, this attachment could be named as interference by her own children.  The solution to this is attachment with detachment.

By attachment with detachment you are giving space to your loved ones...:)