An Ideal Match....???

An Ideal Match..?

“There is no such ideal match on the earth”…. Surprised, go ahead then you’ll understand why.

Many a times I came across this question- Who is an ideal match for you? Or how will you describe an ideal match for yourself? Parents search for their children“An ideal match”.

But who is an ideal match. Last night I was sitting with my hubby and his friend who is a bachelor, asked me-“Bhabi, is there any ideal match for me”
The simple answer to this question is that "there is no ideal match for anybody". Surprised, but it’s the truth. The only existing ideal match is “U” and nobody else. If you can make yourself an ideal, for someone then automatically any person will become ideal for you.

I had learnt this from my past relationships and my marriage that even though the person with whom you are related to, can be very different or simply opposite of you. Then after having a relationship, if you discover that this person is not my type, and then life can become a hell, because it’s not easy to break any relationship. The simplest way to solve this problem is to give time to your marriage / relationship, have patience. You have to make yourself an ideal match, and be compatible to your partner, and then slowly you will notice that your partner is also changing accordingly, and will become an ideal match for you.

Don’t load yourself with bundles of expectation, coz it will only lead to depressions. So to have a healthy relationship and an ideal partner, become an ideal partner and understand your relationship and I can assure you, you will have a wonderful life ahead.